Planning a Celebration of Life

Begin with the person, not the checklist

Some celebrations are quiet and sacred. Others feel like a reunion with good food and favorite songs. Neither is wrong. Start by asking: what would feel true to them — and true to the people who loved them?

Building blocks that usually help

Choose what fits; skip what does not.

• A photo display or short slideshow
• One or two speakers, plus open sharing if that feels right
• Music they loved — even if it is not 'funeral music'
• A simple keepsake table: recipes, letters, a guest book, a favorite object
• Clear timing so elders and children are cared for

Invite stories early

The richest celebrations are fed by memories gathered before the day of the service. Ask relatives for photos and short stories while there is still time to listen and arrange them with care.